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Pleasurists #134
Bound on Reflection by boykitten Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it be...
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Dead Letter Office
This is a list of posts that have been sitting in draft mode in WordPress. Some for years. I look at this list and can see that some of them are obsolete, some are vague, and some are almost complete...
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Jaguar Harness from Babeland
I’ve tried a good handful of harnesses at this point in my life and the Jaguar Harness is at the top of my list thus far. First of all, mine is sexy black leather that feels gorgeous against my skin...
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What did I sign up for?
Warning, this post may be triggering for people that are uncomfortable with BDSM fantasies involving kidnapping, rape, torture, etc. Please be warned. As I mentioned a few days ago, Mr. Vanilla and I...
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Sunday Morning
Long before Mr. Vanilla and I lived together, we had been spending most nights in eachother’s beds. However, knowing that I get to wake up next to him virtually every day forever is still a thrill. It...
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100 Things Redux
In August of 2005, I wrote a post called 100 Things. It was a blogger meme at the time and I dashed it off without a lot of thought. I have known for awhile that I need to revise it based on 6 years of...
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Pleasurists #135
summer lingerie by Miss-ElizabethRose Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. If you like what you see and want more of it...
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Fun Times at Dark Odyssey Fusion
I’ll flesh out more of these details in subsequent posts. However, here is an incomplete list of all of the things I did at Dark Odyssey Fusion :) Let me know if there are specific ones that you want...
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E-Lust #27
Photo courtesy of A Bedroom Blog Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut,...
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Gender Celebration Carnival
There are a bunch of great bloggers signed up to participate in this month’s Gender Celebration Carnival but there are still spots left. If you want to make a post on the theme and get it included in...
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My Take On Masculinity
As a femme, I think about masculinity primarily as something that I define myself in opposition to. However, as I reflect on the idea of “Living Gender” for this month’s Gender Celebration Carnival, I...
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Old Friends
After Hania left town, I didn’t really expect to see her again. Sure, we discussed me coming for a visit to Syria but was that realistic? Then she was living in Prague and it seemed more possible but...
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Toygasms: The Insider’s Guide to Sex Toys from GoodVibes.com
Good Vibrations was kind enough to send me a copy of the book, Toygasms: The Insider’s Guide to Sex Toys. I was excited to read this book and hopefully gain new information about choosing toys and...
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Quiz Time
How amazing was I at karaoke last night? Well, I had two backup dancers, 1 backup singer, and someone playing air keyboard behind me. Also, there were half a dozen lighters out. What? You thought I was...
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The First Gender Celebration Carnival Round-Up
The first Gender Celebration Carnival is complete but the conversations begun are still carrying on. Some amazing writers participated in this first event and I hope that more will jump in next time....
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Elust #28
Photo courtesy of Delilah Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut,...
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Mr. Vanilla?
So, remember when I first told you about Mr. Vanilla? My life was pretty different then. I had just had a miserable breakup with Michael. I was still in a relationship with Jay. And he seemed so simple...
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Community Building
Recently I’ve been involved in relaunching a kink group in my town. It has been . . . challenging to say the least. I’ve realized that in the sex blogging world, I always so easily gravitated to the...
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Protocol
Mr. Vanilla and I have a power-neutral relationship. That means that while we consider ourselves kinsksters and engage in BDSM play, we do not have a permanent power dynamic that we operate under. He...
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Class Notes for “Connection From the Start”
This is an easier to navigate version of my class handout from “Connection From the Start: Beginning Rope Bondage” Quick Start Guide to Rope Bondage Resources Online There are many excellent bondage...
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